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Is it possible I have issue with sex in general

I have been talking to this girl for about a month and I have been very safe about having a sexual relationship with her.  Yesterday it happened and I use protection with her.  I did not finish because I have intimacy issues and as i withdrew my self from her I saw that the condom was sort of coming out but it was still attach to the penis gland.  I removed it with my hand and then I sort of blew on it just to make sure that there was no hole, there wasn't.  My question is, do I need to worry bout catching an std and should I seek professional help because this is really getting to a point where I can't engage in normal heterosexual sex?  
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It never hurts to talk to a counselor about things that are bothering us.  It also sounds like you were pretty careful with the condom, a good thing, but perhaps you should also be sure your girlfriend is on the Pill or has an IUD so you don't also cause an unwanted pregnancy.  It doesn't sound like you have exposed yourself to an STD.

Anyway, seek out a good counselor, it will help you with general anxiety and intimacy issues.
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