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I've never had an orgasm
I'm seventeen, female, and I've never had an orgasm by myself or with a partner. I've tried virtually everything - I've masturbated, I've had penetrative sex, I've been eaten out, fingered, but nothing. When I try by myself, I can feel some sort of escalation, but it ends suddenly and stimulation starts to feel unpleasant (I'm not quite sure how to explain this.) When I have sex, it feels good at first, but the pleasure feels kind of overwhelming, and it starts to feel painful. My current boyfriend is actually really amazing in this regard - I'm lucky. He won't let me give him oral, and if he feels like I'm not enjoying it when we have sex he'll just stop. He says sex should be something that we do together, and he doesn't want to have an orgasm if I don't. He's tried eating me out, fingering me, etc., and he's really good. It's obviously an issue with me, not him. Has this happened to anyone else? Is there anything that I can do about it, or ask my boyfriend to do?
That happens to me to and im 18 now and pregnant with a babygirl im due in 2 days , not that you asked but just to let you know you will still beable to have kids rather you orgasm or not and rather you get wet or not
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Google breath to orgasm. You will find few websites on breathing technique. One of them advocates three types of breathing during or before intercourse. Breathing simaltaneously, alternatively or doing a circular breath. I understand you might have tried kegel exercise. After learning kegel exercise,, you can kegel each other during intercourse.There is a medical condition where a woman does not get orgasm.search the term used for this condition in some website. Study few website for further new techniques to reach orgasm. They do work.
Also, don't hold your breath. Breathing deeply helps bring things on.
If you are at all self-conscious, that can also put the clamps on sexual enjoyment. This also goes for watching yourself and thinking, "Is it happening? Is it happening?"
If you are at all self-conscious, that can also put the clamps on sexual enjoyment. This also goes for watching yourself and thinking, "Is it happening? Is it happening?"
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