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Just need some help and advice

Hi, I'm a 19 year old male. I keep myself in good health and have an okay diet. I also take multivitamins and cod liver oil on a daily basis.
Since I was very young I have masturbated a lot, on average it has been probably once a day for many years, sometimes more and sometimes less. I have adapted my masturbation technique so I receive maximum pleasure from myself, happy days. However I believe this is causing me to have erectile dysfunction when trying to have sex with a partner. I cannot get a solid erection, and if I can only for an extremely short time. I have had this problem with partners several times & think it's about time to get it addressed as it's causing me a lot of stress. I shouldn't need to worry about this at my age. I am currently becoming closer with a particular partner who im crazy about, but we tried to have sex the other night with no joy. I have halted masturbation with immediate effect whilst I get this sorted.

I need help guys, what shall I do to overcome this issue?

Thanks in advance
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Hi Jimmy, First put this in your brain, what is done by the hand is remembered by the brain, so now your getting in to real sex its differant for your p***s, and chuck in some anxiety, and a way goes your hardness, now there is a thing for porn enduced ED, and the way out of it is to take an 8 week break from all forms of sex, no masturbating, no sex or any form of sexual contact, the reason for doing this is to allow your body to reboot,and I think this may do thr world of good, I know its 8 weeks but its 8 weeks to a good sex life.
Good Luck
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thanks NOHARD. I always thought something like that would help, just kind of get my body back to normal & take it from there. Frustrating thing is I've waited a while for a partner like this & obviously I'll want sex with her. I'll just have to see what happens and how it goes. Thanks again mate.

Anybody else with any advice?
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Hi Jimmy, Do hope it works for you Mate, so you an Aussie mate or a Bristol mate then?
Good Luck
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Pommy mate, mate. mind you a few miles away from Bristol!
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