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Mandy

I am only able to orgasm when using a vibrator applying direct clitoril stimulation.  I often will have 5 or 6 orgasms fairly close together when i am doing this.  My concern is that this could be causing some problems.  I find that a day or so afterwards i have some pain in my stomach...could this be related to the spasms?  Also is it safe to use a vibrator in this way?  I orgasms very quickly and can sometimes reach 5 separate orgasms in the space of 5 minutes.  
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Make sure you get the attachment called the g spot adapter. She doesn't use it for insertion but for clitoris stimulation. It just has the right angle to where she can hit the spot comfortably.
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thanks so very much, consider it bought!
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My wife really enjoys the hitachi magic wand. It is more of a hand held back massager but has different attachments for the end. It is by far the best one she has ever used. I know she would recommend it! She had difficulty achieving orgasms until we got her one. Give it a try!
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I am sorry about your situation, and really have nothing to offer, so sorry, I'm at the other end with no orgams of any sort, and have tried almost, everything. If it doesn't seem rude, may I ask what type of vibrator you use, I am trying to obtain at least one orgasism and was hoping you wouldn't mind it I asked for some advise from you, even though I understand you are asking for advise yourself. Hoping this was not in-appropriate.
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wow, that sucks. I've heard about this. I'm no expert but wouldn't it help to, say, stop using the vibe for a bit? It is safe to use a vibe, but.. the vibrations are stronger than, well, manual stimulation.

apply your electric toothrush to the tip of your nose for two minutes, and you'll probably find that it's gone numb. Same thing with the vibe. If you stop using it, the sensation will come back. It might even take a few weeks, seeing as you've trained yourself to only get of with the vibe.
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I  have the same problem, but the pain I have is when I need to have another orgasm.. which  its not a good thing because from using my toy so much I fine it harder to have and orgasm with a man..
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Most women only orgasm from clitoral stimulation, not G-spot stimulation. The stomach pain is probably okay as long as it's not severe and goes away fairly quickly.  lots of stuff going on,...(muscles contracting and relaxing, blood rushing around etc)...no biggie.  the only thing I've ever heard women complain about from using a vibrator is that they can get so used to it, that that is the only way they can get off. I think you're okay....5 or 6?! hmm.....maybe i should invest in one
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