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My Boyfriend Comes really fast during sex...help
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My Boyfriend Comes really fast during sex...help

My boyfriend and i have been having sex for a while about a year...we have been dating for two years...and we are both 18...and when we first started having sex he would last about 10-20 mins...we used condoms then..im on the pill too have been fora  few years..and now we dont use condoms alot and he comes in under 5 mins...and even when he puts on a condom he comes really fast and i dont orgasim. The sex feels amazing but i dont getr to finish. What can i do to make him last longer in bed? oh and also when i give him oral he lasts longer than when we have sex...he has lasted for like 20 mins before and im not doin anything wron he likes it but why does he last longer when i give him oral...what is wrong here??? thankyou for taking the time to read.

here are some things we have tried to have it last.
-stoping before he comes and then once the sensation is gone he starts (failed he just got it right back)
-use condom (lasts maybe a min or two longer)
-slow down(failed)
-sped up (im sure you can guess)

and just i dont know what to do..and im sure you other women who read this and are sexually active know that iits hard enough to orgaim and i feel like im getting sexually frustrated. because i can never fully "release"
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Dear Christybby,

A variety of things could be happening. However, none of them seem to involve the relationship between the two of you. If I'm right, I think you should take the problem to the Sexuality forums.

Sincerely,

Dr. P.
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