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My boyfriend watches porn more than he has sex with me.
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My boyfriend watches porn more than he has sex with me.

When me and my boyfriend first got together we were having sex all the time and things in that department were good. We were trying new things, being adventurous etc..but now it seems like he has no interest at all. Well i say no interest, its like he has no interest in me. I found a load of porn under his bed and in his draws hidden underneath his clothes. There is loads of porn on his phone and I know he watches it on his iPad but me and him rarely have sex now. I've noticed as well, the porn I found in his draw is all fetish stuff like leather and bondage bla bla bla.. I've always been quite confident when it comes to sex but when all this started I've started to feel like I'm not good enough. Hes never asked me about bondage or any strange fetishes or anything but to be honest I'd be willing to give it a go if it meant both of us were satisfied. However i think if i actually mentioned this to him he'd just laugh at me and wouldn't be interested in doing that kind of thing with me. Am I not good enough and has he lost interest in me sexually or am i over thinking it?
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Maybe he just like his porn, but does not real want to do it in real life.  Don't over think it. All that porn stuff is kinda lame in real life.  I would prefer making lover over porn sex most days.  Good luck.
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Don't mention it, just do it and see what happens.
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I don't think i'd have the confidence to anymore
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There is nothing like a woman that takes control every once in a while.  
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Believe me I've tried my best to! He says he loves me and wants to settle down with me and all the rest but I just feel like he has no interest in me sexually whatsoever!
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Maybe he just like his porn, but does not real want to do it in real life.  Don't over think it. All that porn stuff is kinda lame in real life.  I would prefer making lover over porn sex most days.  Good luck.
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But do you see watching porn more than having sex with your partner as a big problem?
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Yeah. The hell with the porn.
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I dont understand it. surely having someone whos interested back has gotta be better
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