My first ever...

[KingKun]

Me and my girlfriend have recently been exploring our sexual desires without actually going full force into sex, that would indeed be a bad decision.

She recently gave me fellatio (unprotected), and it's been on my mind. I've read countless articles about protected and unprotected fellatio and they all give a plethora of opinions and a FEW facts.
She's clean; She's never gone further than a kiss with any other man before, and I also checked for sores in/and around the mouth and lips.

Is the risk of getting an infection at low since I'm her first fellatio subject? :)
What about her? Will she be at risk of getting anything?


And just another odd question, as stupid as this may seem, we all need to learn this for the future - Will having a shower/bath reduce the risk of me getting infection from unprotected fellatio?

Yes, you may giggle but since we've all been here I need to know this information, thankyou very much for being patient and understanding! :)

[Myron_Long]

You have to realize that sex is a high risk factor every time and everyone, believe it or not, has taken chances or currently still taking chances.

I had unprotected sex so many times in my life, its ridiculous and I thank GOD that I'm still disease free. But I'm older now and more wise, still do a little dumb stuff but not as bad as my past. I recently just started enjoying sex with a latex condom so now I'm proud to tell women I practice safe sex. As you get older, you will learn that men and women who cannot enjoy sex with a condom are the people that chances everyday with unprotected sex. Try to make the condom your best friend and if you are one of those people that can't enjoy sex with a condom, you need to figure out why because the latex condom was made for all to enjoy sex still.


I still get fellatio, without a worry, till this day. In fact, just last week, LOL. I just follow my instincts buddy. But I believe fellatio is when the girl actually swallows... I don't get that, most women will not do that. Most women will give you oral just to get you hyped up, rock hard and ready to go! And I don't reciprocate unless they my girlfriend. Sorry, I'm just selfish that way but I play smart.

[KingKun]

Thanks alot Myron.
And about the "not time for you to do anything sexual" comment.
Isn't it time I learned?
I don't freak out 24/7 over it, it's just a subconcious worry about it being new and the risks, and we ALL get that feeling one time or another.
Did you not have that feeling one time or another? :)

[Myron_Long]

I'm 33 year old male. I've been getting head "fellatio" for years. Though it is possible to catch a std from fellatio, I never caught one and I don't worry about it. The % to catch std from you getting fellatio, in my opinion, is slim to none. PLUS, my doctor confirmed this years ago. However, giving fellatio to your girlfriend is at higher risk of a std transmitting because your mouth and tongue is definitely exposed to her vaginal fluids, PLUS there is a strong chance of you swallowing her fluids. On the other hand, women can wipe off the pre-*** and keep going but it's not wise for her to swallow "if she does not know you like that"

So, with that being said, enjoy your fellatio and stop worrying all the time. If you're going to worry about everything sexual, it's not time for you to do anything sexual.

[KingKun]

We have not had sexual intercourse, she's just given me unprotected fellatio! :)

We have not been tested for any form of STD since we haven't had sexual intercourse.
Would you still advise this?

[sweetpea03]

It depends if either of you have had sexual partners before each other. If you have had sex or any type of sexual contact with another girl, you have a higher risk of STD or STI and may pass that on to your girlfriend. Have you been tested for STDs? Has she been tested for STDs? Either one of you can develop an infection, as the mouth has a lot of bacteria inside. It's always a good idea to practice safe sex and to wash up well before and after sexual contact.