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Never enjoyed sex
I need help. I never enjoy sex and I'm not circumcised, so what could be wrong? I'm recently married and I wish to enjoy this aspect of marriage with my husband and not just continue doing it for duty sake.
Thank you. Yes my husband is aware and he seems to be trying all he can. I enjoy the foreplay but it's not usually the same once he gets down there. oral foreplay was exciting at a point until I got numb to it. I see that my husband feels some sort of excitement during sex and I wonder when I would ever feel the same way. I also see and hear how some other ladies hype sex like it's really enjoyable but I wonder why mine is different. I will research into your suggestions and see how it helps. However, I'm very worried likewise my husband.
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Google kegel exerrcises. Practice it. and use during intercourse.
Hi,
Is your husband aware of the fact that you don't enjoy sex? If he is aware, he should be willing to help you figure out a way to improve your sex life.
If you have never experienced any type of sexual pleasure or orgasm during sexual activity (including masturbation), then you and your husband should consider doing some research on sexual techniques. Many women cannot achieve orgasm without foreplay and clitoral stimulation, before and during sexual intercourse. If you do an online search about clitoral stimulation and foreplay techniques, both of you can learn a few tips on how to enhance your sexual pleasure. Experiment with different positions during intimacy to see what is more pleasurable for you; in other words, try making a few changes to your sexual routine to keep it interesting. You may also want to figure out if you feel relaxed enough around your husband during sex. Some women have a difficult time relaxing in the presence of their partners, especially in newer relationships. Communicating with your husband can help him understand how you feel, and in turn he may be able to help you feel more comfortable and confident during intimacy.
Good Luck :)
Is your husband aware of the fact that you don't enjoy sex? If he is aware, he should be willing to help you figure out a way to improve your sex life.
If you have never experienced any type of sexual pleasure or orgasm during sexual activity (including masturbation), then you and your husband should consider doing some research on sexual techniques. Many women cannot achieve orgasm without foreplay and clitoral stimulation, before and during sexual intercourse. If you do an online search about clitoral stimulation and foreplay techniques, both of you can learn a few tips on how to enhance your sexual pleasure. Experiment with different positions during intimacy to see what is more pleasurable for you; in other words, try making a few changes to your sexual routine to keep it interesting. You may also want to figure out if you feel relaxed enough around your husband during sex. Some women have a difficult time relaxing in the presence of their partners, especially in newer relationships. Communicating with your husband can help him understand how you feel, and in turn he may be able to help you feel more comfortable and confident during intimacy.
Good Luck :)
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