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No feeling while sex

Got I little problem what really gets on my nervs as you can emagine. I never had any feeling during having sex ever...
Its just like its dead inside, have a very painfull menstruation every month to, but taking hormons help...

can any body help me with my problem? Went to a female doctor and she said every thing is ok, but how can everything be ok?

Thanks

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Haven't had sex for four months my husband say the feeling is not the same,he think I'm cheating
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If there is no medical problem, a female may try female deer exercise and male may try male deer exercise. Google the above phrases to get the exercise details.
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I have no sexually feeling when I sex I have no feeling this is normal everyone have this problem ? This is effect in pregnency
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hi everyone.im 20 this year and lost my vginity at 15 even then I never felt anything but pain it was like his not getting done at all.

I tried everything but still I don't feel anything even finguring myself it doesn't help. the WORST I never feel horny at all I just want to satisfy my partner....but now im getting tired and giving up on sex life
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I had the same . Was diagnosed with endometriosis
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i sooo feel you.
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what is a G-spot? where do i find my G-spot?
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i feel the same way that you do. i got aroused and im healthy and i have a happy childhood no sexual traumas whatsoevr i just dont feel anything down there during intercourse and i dont feel any pleasure whatsoever even when he puts his finger inside. i just pretended i like it .
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how sad
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how sad
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Anal breathing is suggested for male disorders. I understand it can help female as well. There is no harm in trying.
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Few exercises for female sexual problem(lack of libido and orgasm.If there is a medical problem, these exercises can be done as an adjunct therapy.
Kegel exercise,
Female deer exercise.
Uddian Bandh (navel lock)
Agnisar kriaya.
Breath to orgasm (simultaneous breath, alternate breath and circular breath)
Google the above phrases to see the exercises.
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i am facing similar problems. my girlfrn has change and i thought she doesnt love .if i ask of sex she say no i even force her sometimes.i sometimes too feel like she dont love me but she try to convince me that she love me but just that she dont feel like having sex
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Reading all of your comments makes me feel that I am not alone. However it is a little sad and depressing. Now I feel that it's no hope and it's something I'll have to live with for the rest of my life. I'm only 20 and reading that some people are twice my age and still haven't felt a thing makes me feel that there is no cure. I can get orgasm by playing with my clit which last no longer than 5 seconds but when I have sex I feel the pain of it going in or if it goes too deep but there is no pleasure I just feel something pumping inside of me. I still get the urge to have sex but it's like there's no point I could just live life without it. Like most of the other women I just do it to please my boyfriend. I want to tell him about my problem but it's something I'll rather keep to myself.
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Wonderful advice
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OK my friends, I m suffering from the same problem. I am going to get acupuncture tomorrow. I will report back, I have had acupuncture for the same thing years ago and it was amazing. A day later I had sex and I came easily, it felt like what I had always imagined sex would be like.. natural and flowing. Stand by I will let you know how I get on. It involved acupuncture three fingers down from my belly button, apparently you can do acupressure and it does the same thing.
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Urologist or gynecologist can prescribe some hormone preparation to normalize your libido. however, you can use some exercise like kegel exerciser, female deer exercise.doing lot of fore play before intercourse( your husband has to do it). Selecting new postures,Research Google with appropriate inquiry. there are many websites which can help you. you may also search in kundalini yoga exercises.  
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From the very first time I lost my virginity, I thought to myself .."That's it? This is what sex is supposed to feel like? What is the big deal because I don't really feel anything." I've been sexually active since I was 17 and I'm 29 years old now. I have no feeling during sex. It just feels like an object inside of me and if he goes deep, I feel pain. The idea of sex gets me aroused but actually doing it is boring. However, I can orgasm all day from clitoris stimulation. I've been with my husband for almost 6 years now and I just thought it was normal. However, one day after coming home from drinking at a party with my husband, The most amazing thing happened to me. While intoxicated my husband decided to have sex with me. From the moment he penetrated me, I had the most amazing sensation during sex...something that I've never felt before... It was as if I had every nerve in my vagina turned on. It was the most amazing feeling I have ever experienced. At that point I knew what sex was supposed to feel like. Ever since that day I've been trying to get that wonderful feeling back again during sex. However, its been almost a year now and I haven't had much luck. I'm starting to feel helpless and very frustrated. Is there any cream or medication I can use to help me?
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Does anyone else that has this problem also have a problem with getting excited about general things that aren't to do with sex or other emotions cause I have the same problem but as it has progress my other emotions seem to have dwindled but I don't know if this is to do with the fact this has had an affect on me or whether they are connected, thanks!
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Goofle female deer exercise, learn it and practice for a month. It will help you to regain your sexual vigor.
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I have the same problem, everytime since my first I've never felt anything during sex I feel intercourse fine but during I just get bored and don't like it most the time I have to fake it and it really puts me down, I don't want to go doctor as by sounds of it there not very helpful, I've never told anyone as don't want to upset or annoy them but don't want to go through life like this it is not nice, any suggetions on what I can do
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First Try pegym website. you will get plenty of exercise for male as well as female.Female should see that their clitoris is binge rubbed by the dorsal part of penis during intercourse. By doing kegel exercise one can sqeeze in a better manner. if man kegelw, he gives a vertical movement to his penis which gives a different type of sensation to a woman.Google external and internal prostate massage. this can help to improve sexual performance.you can Google these words to get at the relevant websites.
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i think you should take break a while and than try it after some
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Please help me out...I m man...I m married almost 5yrs...beginning was good...now last couple of month I have this problem. .please help me out..
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no feelings before and after sex
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