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By eyee12 | Jun 02, 2009

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Not able to orgasm during sex

Hi guys,

I've actually been sexually active for the past 5 years or so. My first girlfriend I was with for almost 5 years and we've been sexually active. Yet, for this 5 years, whenever we had sex or even oral sex, it was like there was no feeling at all for me which led me to not being able to have an orgasm. Yet, if I masturbate myself, I would be able to, it's just during sex or sexual activities, I'm not able to. It's been like that and I have never had an orgasm with a girl before. Can anybody tell me what's going on? It's been making me insecure with my new girlfriend. Thanks for all the input.

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