Latex can be irritating, especially since there is always that extra "tip" of the condrom. My female partners have always found using condoms during oral to irritate their throats as well.
My advice is if you've been with him for a year and he's a virgin have him get tested to be 100% sure and then once you're comfortable knowing that he's safe/clean I would stop using condoms for oral, unless the taste bothers you, then that's another issue altogether.
You could also try the non-latex type but I've never liked any of those myself.
-Jeremy
Hi Monica, Ok lets try and get things right for you, if you stop useing latex condoms for BJs then? if I'm right you should be OK.
As for getting an STD through a condom, I think your quite safe seeing as your 98% safe from getting preggers the you sould be 98% safe from getting an STD OK.
But then you said hes a virgin, so just wear has he got an STD from then?
Look I think your safe but you are getting paranoid from all this, so I surggest you take a sex break to calm your self down for a couple of weeks.
Look a few years ago there was a very good magazine called Forum, now if you have any second hand book and magazine shops see if you can find some, the older ones are the best, I'm talking early 1970s and onwards, I think these were the best, you will find letters at the back of them and an adviser, you will find lots of info on sex and sex matters, woth there weight in gold, and you can find some Forum books as well, Sex life letters, more sex life letters and sex files, all good reading.
Good Luck
Hi Monica, Ok lets try and get things right for you, if you stop useing latex condoms for BJs then? if I'm right you should be OK.
As for getting an STD through a condom, I think your quite safe seeing as your 98% safe from getting preggers the you sould be 98% safe from getting an STD OK.
But then you said hes a virgin, so just wear has he got an STD from then?
Look I think your safe but you are getting paranoid from all this, so I surggest you take a sex break to calm your self down for a couple of weeks.
Look a few years ago there was a very good magazine called Forum, now if you have any second hand book and magazine shops see if you can find some, the older ones are the best, I'm talking early 1970s and onwards, I think these were the best, you will find letters at the back of them and an adviser, you will find lots of info on sex and sex matters, woth there weight in gold, and you can find some Forum books as well, Sex life letters, more sex life letters and sex files, all good reading.
Good Luck
I mean I thought if you have an allergy your whole face swells and you get a rash. SOOOO could I die from this then? I have a minor sore throat/irritation. I hope it goes away on its own. I don't want to go to the doctor or anything. Even if it is an allergy, it will go away? ALSO do you think its some virus from the penis head itself even though there was a condom on?
Good Luck