If she ejaculated, the size of the wet spot is about right from what you describe. Because she is inexperienced, she probably didn't realize she was getting ready to orgasm, which can build up to an ejaculation. The phenomina is often caused by an orgasm sneaking up on you or staying in a 'relaxed' position rather than tightening up your pelvic muscles as happens just prior to orgasm. If a woman stays relaxed until the orgasm takes hold, the spasms are often so strong that it will lead to an ejaculation. Some people think it is urine that comes out because it is thin and clear. In actuality, it is a liquid that is produced within the walls of the vagina that builds up and then is excreted by a flush when she is brought to orgasm.
In woman, wetness has nothing to do with orgasm. Wetness means that she was arroused. If she doesn't know if she had an orgasm, she probably didn't. By the age of 26, most women have had much experience with masterbation and are very familiar with what an orgasm feels like. If she says she doesn't know, I would say either she is either very sexually oppressed or she didn't want to disappoint you (although if the later is the case, most women would just lie and said they did).
It definatly is possible and I wouldn't say it is common but some women have excessive wetness. You may be surprised just how wet some women can get without orgasming.
~S.A.
It happens, but as far as I know (and experienced), it's infrequent.
Thank you for your response. She is a virgin and is just learning about these kinds of things (I believe her). On my encouragement, she has massaged herself with me present. She can do this for a short period of time and then feels awkward with me being there. She will figure it out though. She told me she "thinks" she has reached orgasm. Is it common for some women to release enough liquid during orgasm to leave the 6 inch wet spot I mentioned in my inital post?
Buster
sound like she has ur a lucky lad if u got a girl that can *** it pretty rare but then again you wud think she wud of known if she had an orgasm its a pretty distinct feeling
I agree with both Redneckmom & slow_healer, a woman knows when she has had an orgasm. I would ask your girlfriend if she has ever had one, it sounds as though she may not have. I would suggest that if she is unsure if she has ever orgasmed that the two of you explore and possibly have her try it herself. A lot of women are able to reach orgasm manually with self stimulation and once they've learned what makes them reach orgasm they can instruct their partner to what has made them reach orgasm.
I hope this helped.
~S.A.
wow...your #2 comment is rather harsh! She is 26 and very mature.
If she is saying that she isn't sure, the answer is one of two things:
1. She absolutely did not have one. She would know if she did.
2. She is not mature enough to talk about sex. In this case she should not be having it.
It sounds like she ejaculated (whether or not women truly ejaculate like men do is a hot topic for debate - one that I'd rather not get into). A big difference between men and women is that a man's orgasms is usually accompanied by ejaculation, whereas a woman's orgasm is not always accompanied by ejaculation (the two together happen seldom if not rare for many women).
Orgasm for women is more of a full-body feeling of pleasure and release; it's a physical reaction that once it starts, you can lay back and enjoy it. Of course, each woman is different and so experiences between women may vary. But I think generally it feels like a pressure or energy that builds up and then finally releases as a wave of relaxation and pleasure. Women who've had an orgasm don't wonder whether they did - they just know. I hope this helps!