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PLEASE HELP!! I'm only 20!
I am a 20 year old male and I've recently met this older gentleman that I like and he is VERY sexual and he is a bottom. I'm a versatile, but I top him.
But prior to him, I have had sex once few months ago. And prior to that,years! So I'm sexually inexperienced. But he has had A LOT of sex so he is experience. It's always been protected and he's healthy and neg so that isn't the issue.
Before him I didn't think too much about sex.
But getting an erection is difficult by masterbating, but once I get one it isn't full like it use to be, but I can still ejaculate.
With him, it starts off good. It works for about an 45mins to an hour (still not erect fully but enough for action), but after that it goes flaccid and it doesn't erect! Regardless of wether I ejaculated or not! We do all types of things but nothing really works, and if it does get erect, by the time I get the condom on it's flaccid again.
I don't really understand why this is happening now. When I was 17 I'd have sex with ex boyfriend constantly and that one guy I had sex with back in January, I was fully erect then and the sex is better with this one!!
It's not that I'm not attracted to him at all. On the contrary, I've actually never been attracted to someone as much as this before.
I guess it could be his experience that intimidates me, but he is very patient and we communicate. He says he believe it's performance anxiety because when he asked for a round 2 or 3 I got flaccid. So he said I should just relax and I did... and I was still flaccid.
PLEASE HELP ME. I REALLY LIKE HIM AND I WANT TO BE ABLE TO SATISFY HIM MORE. HE TOLD ME THAT THE SEX IS FANTASTIC. BUT THAT'S WHEN It HAPPENS.
Please I'm only 20 this shouldn't be happening! We are slowly making progress but my erections aren't full and I don't want to wait any longer.
So please anyone have any advice or anything so I can get a fully erection and keep it for hours?
Feel free to ask me any question(s).
Thank you.
Height: 6'0
Weight: 146ibs
But prior to him, I have had sex once few months ago. And prior to that,years! So I'm sexually inexperienced. But he has had A LOT of sex so he is experience. It's always been protected and he's healthy and neg so that isn't the issue.
Before him I didn't think too much about sex.
But getting an erection is difficult by masterbating, but once I get one it isn't full like it use to be, but I can still ejaculate.
With him, it starts off good. It works for about an 45mins to an hour (still not erect fully but enough for action), but after that it goes flaccid and it doesn't erect! Regardless of wether I ejaculated or not! We do all types of things but nothing really works, and if it does get erect, by the time I get the condom on it's flaccid again.
I don't really understand why this is happening now. When I was 17 I'd have sex with ex boyfriend constantly and that one guy I had sex with back in January, I was fully erect then and the sex is better with this one!!
It's not that I'm not attracted to him at all. On the contrary, I've actually never been attracted to someone as much as this before.
I guess it could be his experience that intimidates me, but he is very patient and we communicate. He says he believe it's performance anxiety because when he asked for a round 2 or 3 I got flaccid. So he said I should just relax and I did... and I was still flaccid.
PLEASE HELP ME. I REALLY LIKE HIM AND I WANT TO BE ABLE TO SATISFY HIM MORE. HE TOLD ME THAT THE SEX IS FANTASTIC. BUT THAT'S WHEN It HAPPENS.
Please I'm only 20 this shouldn't be happening! We are slowly making progress but my erections aren't full and I don't want to wait any longer.
So please anyone have any advice or anything so I can get a fully erection and keep it for hours?
Feel free to ask me any question(s).
Thank you.
Height: 6'0
Weight: 146ibs
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After intercourse and ejaculation, you need minimum half an hour to get erect. The time may differ from person to person. one need not worry about this refractory time.If he is coaxing you again and again, you will not be natural with him and your erection will not be strong.Mental harmony is essential. Google peripheral prostate anal massage. This may help you in many ways. Just try.
Also, I don't usually get my morning wood either, and when I do its not full either. It kinda just lays there.
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