It is also important to remember if your wife does have Vaginismus lack of ample foreskin can also make the problem work as abrasions would cause the spasms to "activate" I doubt Vaginismus is the problem. Circumcision dramatically alters sex and reduces pleasure for a man causes dysfunction, and causes pain in women. That skin is supposed to be there! There are many ways to restore the foreskin that are essentially free, and some devices that can be used that are under $100. $100 seems pretty cheap compared to surgery, and penis reduction? No way penis reduction is insane. It is a betrayal to all of us average guys :-)
Please see my post for anyone that is circumcised. lack of penile mobility can and will cause irritation and outright pain for women. Penis size does not even matter. What matters is how much skin was taken during your circumcision. Even with very generous lubrication you are talking about skin rubbing on skin and can be extremely aggravating if the woman is extra sensitive. Foreskin allows the penis to "glide" so that the shaft moves but the skin does not. The reason some men don't have as much of a problem is likely from a "loose" circumcision where the doctor left ample skin. Circumcision is a fraud. I am working to restore my foreskin right now non surgically basically because my wife (who is not particularly tight, and has an averaged sized vagina) can only have sex with me for a 10-20 minute time span. We were finally able to discover the source of the pain. It is worth mentioning that I am 6 1/4 inches and 5 inches in diameter (not particularly big)
I have heard, that some monks stretch their penis and wind around their bodies. They do it to reduce libido and sexual act. They are one of the sect of naga Bawa. (naked monks)
I stumbled across this post and though it's old I thought I'd comment anyway. First off I just want to say thanks to sisterp229! That racist mess about black girls being bigger had caused problems since we became slaves and were "shown off" various gatherings! Now about this issue... I really feel for these guys because hurting someone you care about like that is horrible to go through. I had a friends who did get the surgery that was about a foot. They used meds doing recovery to stop the erections and the tucking procedure took off a few inches as well as some girth. Keep in mind a males penis is partially inside of him when he isn't erect anyway. There was also fatty tissue and veins removed and he conceived a child AFTER the surgery. It was done by a doc down South (TX I believe), but I'm sure there are doctors all over that can perform this surgery. It's like getting circumcised, in a way...
You're an idiot. The max possible length of a grown human being (not preteen) is about 12 inches. I was 9.5 inches when I was 17 years old. Close to 20 years old I began experimenting with hanging barbells tied to a belt and wrapped around my penis. About a decade of hanging weights intermittently, I am a little over 12 inches. One cannot have something larger that 12 inches unless he were to hang weights from his penis all of his life. Everyone looks smaller than me, and some guys in porn that are big are usually a few inches or more shorter. If you stretch something long enough, naturally it will elongate permanently. It's physics. I don't see how it's at all possible for a man to have anything close to 12 or more naturally however.
if a woman is extremely turned on her vagina becomes relaxed and able to easy take the average "large" penis- if this were not true, giving birth would be impossible!... do things to make her feel this way...suck on her ***** and rub her G spot until she is orgaziming repeatedly and ejaculating...once she reaches that point she will be begging you to slide that big penis into her. Lots of these comments are from people in long term relationships. Makes me wonder if it is not so much the penis size but the boredom..bordon in the bedroom will lead to tight, dry, unrelaxed vaginas! turn her on and she will love it!