hi i used to enjoy anal penetration with my husband but now i find it painful around the entrance in one particular place(cant see ny piles ect)have tried many times over the years but stil tht tenderness in that place seen gp.. no std's present and no sores ect really enjoyed it and do want to get back to having a little bit of what i call naughtyness cmments wantde pls
You CAN and I DO have absolutely incredible orgasms during anal sex and WITHOUT having to stimulate the clitoris. I have had the most incredible orgasms in anal sex with my partner for many years - with huge gushes of juice!! He has never had to stimulate any part of my body to do so. I think your partner/wife needs to feel relaxed during anal sex , which can be pretty intensive - I suggest you help her to relax and release her anal sphincter muscles and then she should be able to 'let go' and therefore have an incredible orgasm !
With your wife willing to experiment, you could try various anal intercourse sessions over a period of time. Depending upon her interest and comfort, you could penetrate to varying degrees, for instance, as I have heard of some women having orgasms this way by deep penetration. Some can have an orgasm by slow and gentle thrusting, while others will need stronger banging thrusts. Of course, all the other necessary considerations should be met as with any anal sex: proper lubrication, slow motion (at least at first), partner's comfort, and so on. Each time that she does not have an orgasm with anal intercourse, you should orally bring her to orgasm afterward.
Sorry, i'm a woman and i've had MANY orgasms from anal sex.. that is completely not true PATT37, you don't know what you're talking about! LOL
You can't. If you want your wife to have an orgasm with anal sex, you will have to stimulate her vaginally or clitorially at the same time. Rectums weren't desined to produce orgasms.