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Possible STD infection concern - please help!
Okay so i went to see a working girl on monday. I only stayed for 15mins. I'm a bit of an OCD and may suffer from slight depression and anxiety.
I did not have sex with her though.
I feel its best i lay out all the details of what happened and the areas of my concern
She is romanian and offers bare-back. She wore very short jean shorts and a t-shirt kind of top with no arms
In order of events:
Shock her hand
She gave me a lapdance, i was fully clothed. I then picked her up with her facing me with her hands on my back and mine around her leg.
I then began to feel her breasts and her body a little bit.
I then began to finger her with her jeans still on. I then did this with just her underwear on as well.
I felt her breasts again and then her legs a little bit.
I then sat ontop of her still with all my clothes on and pants slightly down to ejaculate on her top half of her body.
I know its not very risky but the fact she offers bareback is a risk. Also the fact i touched her breasts and fingered her slightly with her underwear on and then placed my hands on my penis is a concern.
At the end and beginning i asked her if she was clean to which she said yes. Now i know that can be taken as many things with no one knowing if anyone is telling the truth, even friends so im not sure that holds any weight. Her english was conversational not excellent. One hindering concern is when i asked her again, her friend that was there said yes she has a disease, now not sure if they were just joking when she said that, or said it to annoy me. In all fairness i can see the WG being slightly annoyed as i was quite paranoid after and kept asking her to confirm she was clean (not the best thing to do, i know believe me)
Just wanted to know what i should do and if i am at any risk. I don't remember if there was any fluid / juice when i fingered her but it was over her underwear so i don't think there is that much risk. I also had a carex pocket hand gell with me which i used straight away. I went to the toilet before but used the toilet roll to flush and the gel to clean my hands.
I think thats all the details. I'm clearly a bit OCD and didn't want to do anything serious with her in terms of sex and such and i know it was not the best thing to do for a person as anxious as me but it was a spur of the moment thing.
The main concern is that she does bareback and i fingered her and touched her breasts and then touched my penis. There were no spots or sores on my penis at the time or on my hands. At the time of this writing, there do not seem to be any.
Apologies for the long post and probably incorrect grammar and english.
I did not have sex with her though.
I feel its best i lay out all the details of what happened and the areas of my concern
She is romanian and offers bare-back. She wore very short jean shorts and a t-shirt kind of top with no arms
In order of events:
Shock her hand
She gave me a lapdance, i was fully clothed. I then picked her up with her facing me with her hands on my back and mine around her leg.
I then began to feel her breasts and her body a little bit.
I then began to finger her with her jeans still on. I then did this with just her underwear on as well.
I felt her breasts again and then her legs a little bit.
I then sat ontop of her still with all my clothes on and pants slightly down to ejaculate on her top half of her body.
I know its not very risky but the fact she offers bareback is a risk. Also the fact i touched her breasts and fingered her slightly with her underwear on and then placed my hands on my penis is a concern.
At the end and beginning i asked her if she was clean to which she said yes. Now i know that can be taken as many things with no one knowing if anyone is telling the truth, even friends so im not sure that holds any weight. Her english was conversational not excellent. One hindering concern is when i asked her again, her friend that was there said yes she has a disease, now not sure if they were just joking when she said that, or said it to annoy me. In all fairness i can see the WG being slightly annoyed as i was quite paranoid after and kept asking her to confirm she was clean (not the best thing to do, i know believe me)
Just wanted to know what i should do and if i am at any risk. I don't remember if there was any fluid / juice when i fingered her but it was over her underwear so i don't think there is that much risk. I also had a carex pocket hand gell with me which i used straight away. I went to the toilet before but used the toilet roll to flush and the gel to clean my hands.
I think thats all the details. I'm clearly a bit OCD and didn't want to do anything serious with her in terms of sex and such and i know it was not the best thing to do for a person as anxious as me but it was a spur of the moment thing.
The main concern is that she does bareback and i fingered her and touched her breasts and then touched my penis. There were no spots or sores on my penis at the time or on my hands. At the time of this writing, there do not seem to be any.
Apologies for the long post and probably incorrect grammar and english.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hello,
Chances of a STD by what you have described are less but chances of HPV warts are there. Warts are tumours or growths of the skin caused by infection with Human Papillomavirus (HPV).They are contagious when in contact with the skin of an infected person. Chances of transmission of HPV by the way you have described are there.
It is very difficult to precisely confirm a diagnosis without examination and investigations and the answer is based on the medical information provided. For exact diagnosis, you are requested to consult your doctor. I sincerely hope that helps. Take care and please do keep me posted on how you are doing.
Chances of a STD by what you have described are less but chances of HPV warts are there. Warts are tumours or growths of the skin caused by infection with Human Papillomavirus (HPV).They are contagious when in contact with the skin of an infected person. Chances of transmission of HPV by the way you have described are there.
It is very difficult to precisely confirm a diagnosis without examination and investigations and the answer is based on the medical information provided. For exact diagnosis, you are requested to consult your doctor. I sincerely hope that helps. Take care and please do keep me posted on how you are doing.
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