So about two days ago I decided to try anal sex with my boyfriend.. We had been going for a while already, so there wasn't really and lube left on the condom.. It hurt so bad that I wouldn't let him continue.. It bled for about a day, and now it is very sore which is to he expected. However, it has become very difficult to "poop" and "fart". The worst is the itching.. Up inside my rectum itches so badly that it is hard to sleep. I don't know if I should try to clean it out or not. The skin around my anus is also a redish color.. Im so scared to tell anyone, and I don't know if I should or not.. In kinda nauseous the Past two mornings as well.. Do I have a serious infection or something? Please help. Thanks:)