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Relation ship is in problem due to sex

Hi ,

My name is DPK , and after the age of 30 I found my true love.which is my first love also.I am almost about to marry her.I kept sexual relation with her.After the 1st time sex with my gf I got to know that she is not virgin.She told me that she had multiple sex relations with multiple persons with whom she was in love before but after that got betrayed.After that , its been 5/6 times that I have involved in a sexual relation with her.but not getting satisfied. Initially I thought my penis size or may be my strength is having some issue . But its not like that. Now a days
I am not satisfied with her in sex , as her vagina is very loose. But I cant leave her due to this reason only. Because I love her.Now a days we are going through  a kind of emotions.

I am just thinking that What can I do once I will get marry with her. I just want to have a good sexual relationship with my gf, who will be my future wife.I am very much worried about this relationship. Should I go for a
vaginal operation for getting back her vagina in shape, or some exercise I recommend her to do.or any thing. Please suggest me.  
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Thanks for your suggestion. I wrote my reply to Prizefighter. You may see. And let me have some google on it.
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Prizefighter,
I guess you are right. There was one point that I had not mention in my earlier note.On the beginning of our relationship when we were not discussing  regarding the sex mater, One of my friend told me about my GF's past. It is because she was used to be the GF of my friend's friend . So he gave me the info about my gf and told me that your GF is not virgin. and she has done many times sex before with that guy. So all in all , I knew about her that she was not a virgin.

I have other friend circle also who  have married to virgin girl and they have told me how to know your gf is virgin or not. They also told me that if your gf is a virgin then on the very first time you do intercourse you will feel the blood of her. And it will be tight also.

The fact is , I know about her every thing , but still accepted .I proposed her first , and got to know that we all are suitable for each other. As I have never done sex before in my whole life, so there was an excitement also to have sex for the first time once you make a new gf. You know it. But I also knew that ,, her vagina part is very loose and I am very much upset with it.  I raised raised this matter to my gf after having sex  5-6 times.  I also got unhappy or un satisfied  which she figured it out after that.When I asked about how did you lost it , then after she says about her past life everything.  This is the whole story. I hope I haven't complicated it.  
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139792 tn?1498585650
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Prizefighter has diagnosed your problem correctly.When you do intercourse with her you visualize other persons having her. This fancy deems your sexual pleasure.Both of you should take us this issue as a challenge and try to improve your sexual activity. there are number of exercises for strengthening your virility. Some of the exercises are as under. Google each exercise and learn them and practice regularly.YOu can help each other in doing exercises and satisfying each other sexually by having full body orgasm.
Male and female deer exercise
kegel exercise.-Learn to kegel each other while doing intercourse.
Navel lock,
Uddian band
Try different postures.
Try to learn how find and stimulate her G spot. Continue searching more about different sexual techniques.
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Vaginal operation, wow.  I heard it all.  I bet if she lied to you and told you she was a virgin, you would be all kinds of satisfied sexually. right? Yeah, have her do exercises and get over your issues.
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