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Sex related quesion ? Need help

I'm 26 and my gf is 24 , we both were virgin and we had sex month ago , first night was nice but after that next was just fine because if I go fast so I *** fast and my penis didn't sleep while sex but if I try to make sex long ( slow slow ) penis goes to sleep and after that time now it's really like I have no desire of sex , I want to do but he always sleeps and never get up like he always get up before we had sex , we need help , I'm so scared :-(
No smoking , no drugs, work at night shift so sleep in day time , please help thx
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Sounds mostly like performance anxiety and stress to me. Maybe try to pleasure her first with hands, mouth etc? That way you won't feel as pressured to perform for her sake, and it might turn you on enough to make you hard without overthinking it.
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You're going to make yourself so anxious that he won't wake up because you will be too tied in knots emotionally to let things flow.  Sex is natural and so is varying sexual performance.  You don't have to be like a porno star; in fact you don't have to be anything or do anything besides respond to and enjoy your partner.
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