SheMale Porn in Bf's Phone... More than once

[NeglectedNBS]

So I have been with my MAN for 6.5 years. I am a female last I checked. He has a ridiculous obsession with porn, he jerks off at least four times a day, if given the chance.
He jerks off at work, while I'm at work or even in the bathroom when he's supposed to be getting ready for work himself. Countless times I checked his phone and I've matched the times., so there's no denying. He enjoys all types of videos from rape to anal porns. But more than once now I've found shemale porn as the title of the pages he's searched. I'm a little grossed out about this and it kind of turns me off from him. I can't confront him because he will deny and I can't show him I looked because then the whole thing with go horribly south. I don't know if I should let it go but the porn has certainly been affecting my sex life because I practically beg him to **** me, but when he does want to, I never do because this whole thing disgusts me. I don't know what to do about all of this. I feel like I've wasted a long time with him and six plus years into this I don't want to marry him, get divorced just to have to start all over again..ugh... Help.

[Gigi81_922]

He needs professional help and see a therapist specialised in porn addiction. Porn is like a drug to the brain, its a wider spread issue then most people realise. Straight men watch transgender porn as normal porn doesnt do it for them anymore. They need more extreme material to get off. Watching rape is quite worrying as that shows his brain is already numbed down a lot. It can go awfully wrong from here. Please rest assured this behaviour has nothing to do with you personally. But if he doesnt get help it will only get worse. Google porn addiction and find out more for yourself. Good luck!

[jefelex]

The whole issue is, and you live with it - it is unlikely his behaviour will ever change, so if it makes you uncomfortable, then don't waste anymore of your time on the guy

[Chima7]

It sounds like he'd rather be alone with his hand and his porn than to have a real girlfriend. He is clearly obsessed with this, I mean doing it at work and every free moment he has? This is clearly addict behavior.

I really think you need to break up with him and find a normal boyfriend who isn't an addict. This so called relationship is kind of a joke since he's so much more interested in his "fix" than he is in his living breathing girlfriend.

[bobdylan1958]

Hi honey may i ask you to let go of him your getting nowhere with him ,  you should not beg for anything let go with love then start looking after no1 that's you , Please take care