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Small Vagina Size: First time sex question
I wanted to ask this on an anonymous forum. Any girls or doctors here can help me? I am going to have sex for the first time with a guy. I know most of will find it very strange- but please understand that some cultures are very different and conservative. I am 32 but from a religious family.
There are TWO major problems:
1-First I am 5' tall 120Lb and he is around 6' and has a very big and very thick penis. Even the tip of his penis is too wide to enter my vagina it seems as I am very very petite. Is it even possible for a man with a big penis to have sex with someone petite like me? On looking at it I was like no way it can ever enter there is just no room for it inside me! I know though that vagina can enlarge to deliver a baby, but that is only under influence of heavy hormones right?
2-And second problem is that since I am a virgin it will hurt and bleed anyway as it is my first time?? So combine these two facts- can a big penis potentially injure me to the extent that I will have to go to an ER? My parents don't know and it would be killing for me if they have to be called to the emergency room for this!
I need to know what the consequences are for a petite virgin to have sex with a huge penis guy, as if a big penis can potentially injure me then I rather wait and lose my virginity to a medium penis sized guy.
Any doctors or girls with same experience can help me? I have posted this on other medical forums but no response so far. Thanks to all in advance! :-)
There are TWO major problems:
1-First I am 5' tall 120Lb and he is around 6' and has a very big and very thick penis. Even the tip of his penis is too wide to enter my vagina it seems as I am very very petite. Is it even possible for a man with a big penis to have sex with someone petite like me? On looking at it I was like no way it can ever enter there is just no room for it inside me! I know though that vagina can enlarge to deliver a baby, but that is only under influence of heavy hormones right?
2-And second problem is that since I am a virgin it will hurt and bleed anyway as it is my first time?? So combine these two facts- can a big penis potentially injure me to the extent that I will have to go to an ER? My parents don't know and it would be killing for me if they have to be called to the emergency room for this!
I need to know what the consequences are for a petite virgin to have sex with a huge penis guy, as if a big penis can potentially injure me then I rather wait and lose my virginity to a medium penis sized guy.
Any doctors or girls with same experience can help me? I have posted this on other medical forums but no response so far. Thanks to all in advance! :-)
waiting for marriage or not, it would appear she is in need of some serious advice. As a male, from what I've read, entry should be taken very slowly and you should be VERY lubricated and have him enter you VERY SLOWLY AND A LITTLE AT A TIME...it may take a few sessions of love making to get all or most of the way in...
I'm sure women with similar situations will responded..
Jim
I'm sure women with similar situations will responded..
Jim
I agree with zam - wait until you get married, then you'll be alright because you'll be able to enjoy it without worry
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