Swollen vagina (hole) after sex

[Asfreeasthewend]

I am 25. I am sexually clean and so is my partner. We wear non latex condoms, when I wore latex condoms with my previous partner I would get horrible utis. I stopped using latex and they stopped, I figured I was allergic. My new partner is larger then my previous one, he also likes sex multiple times. This is not a problem with me other than right after sex the first time my vagina opening starts to swell. The top wall (when laying on my back) swells and is VERY painful, and will stay painful for at least a day after wards. Not to get to graphic but you can't even put a finger in. And it is only the opening if I finally get him in (usually the day after he is fine inside till he goes to pull out or push in. I've tried many positions and it still hurts. I am sure he is stretching me, but he is not tearing there's no blood after sex. Any ideas on how to stop it or heal it faster. Also lube I do not think is an issue. We tried that last time and it was still swollen.

[Asfreeasthewend]

Very true no hard

[NOHARD]

Hi Asfree, look making love having sex should be something to enjoy, but if your in pain the only person who enjoys is your bloke, but he should be there for you as well, love making should be a two way thing of enjoyment, and server pain is not good for you as it become a not very enjoyable thing.
Good Luck

[Asfreeasthewend]

Um thanks no hard.

[NOHARD]

Hi Asfree, look they say for each hole there is a p***s, and they match, but I think yours is a miss match, most women will accept the larger guy, but O just dont think yours is accomandating this one, and atbthtis moment cant think of an answer for it.
Good Luck

[Asfreeasthewend]

Thank you I haven't tried ice.

[txgurl4real]

I have never heard of this happening. I would try some foreplay prior to the penetration. Have him insert his fingers with lots of lube first and try to completly relax. If your to tense it will make it less enjoyable. Also you may try inserting a icecube afterwards to help with the swelling.Sorry that I couldn't be of more help. If this continues to happen it would probaly be your best bet to see a doctor.

[kaybell]

Hello! This happens to me too. My partner is the only one I have been with. He is well huge. His penius Is 7 inches. We you a lub, so I know that helps. After sex, he will lay a wet towel on my area. then, we just lay and cuddle. Last time we had sex his mom walked in, so we forgot to do the towel. It happened again.