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The Myth of the Fe/Male G-Spot?
I apologize in advance for my long windedness.
While many Americans have grown up with the myth that there is this magical spot, located in the exact same place on every woman, that will produce instant gratification in her, I have read numerous reports that there are a good number of perfectly healthy women who, not only find their G-spots unstimulating, but even find them to be a distraction from achieving orgasm.
In recent years, there has even been some attention on the so-called, Male G-spot, - i.e., the prostate gland, which again, much like it's female counterpart, is supposed to be this magical button that produces instant gratification and orgasm whenever stimulated. However, I have had a prostate exam and even, while at a massage parlor (one of THOSE massage parlors) had my anus stimulated, and in both cases found the experience not only emotionally uncomfortable, but so physically painful that, in the first case, my eyes were actually bulging out of my head, and in the second case, I jumped and wouldn't let the woman penetrate beyond the first knuckle of her index finger (and yes, in both cases, both were well lubricated).
Anyway, here is my question? Is there any reliable medical evidence to justify the mythology of the G-spots? I have looked up and down the web and have unfortunately found little more than advice columns from people with either no medical credentials whatsoever, or credentials in such quasi-medical professions such as "herbology", "tantric sex", and even people who call themselves "experts by experience" - i.e., no credentials. Can anyone point me to any RELIABLE medical articles on the web - i.e, articles from people whose names are followed by "M.D." - about the G-spot.
Also, feel free to give me your own advice on the subject. I'm curious to hear it.
While many Americans have grown up with the myth that there is this magical spot, located in the exact same place on every woman, that will produce instant gratification in her, I have read numerous reports that there are a good number of perfectly healthy women who, not only find their G-spots unstimulating, but even find them to be a distraction from achieving orgasm.
In recent years, there has even been some attention on the so-called, Male G-spot, - i.e., the prostate gland, which again, much like it's female counterpart, is supposed to be this magical button that produces instant gratification and orgasm whenever stimulated. However, I have had a prostate exam and even, while at a massage parlor (one of THOSE massage parlors) had my anus stimulated, and in both cases found the experience not only emotionally uncomfortable, but so physically painful that, in the first case, my eyes were actually bulging out of my head, and in the second case, I jumped and wouldn't let the woman penetrate beyond the first knuckle of her index finger (and yes, in both cases, both were well lubricated).
Anyway, here is my question? Is there any reliable medical evidence to justify the mythology of the G-spots? I have looked up and down the web and have unfortunately found little more than advice columns from people with either no medical credentials whatsoever, or credentials in such quasi-medical professions such as "herbology", "tantric sex", and even people who call themselves "experts by experience" - i.e., no credentials. Can anyone point me to any RELIABLE medical articles on the web - i.e, articles from people whose names are followed by "M.D." - about the G-spot.
Also, feel free to give me your own advice on the subject. I'm curious to hear it.
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