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2064683 tn?1331038711

The only time my fiancé can *** if by jerking off

I've been with my fiancé for almost two years I'm 20 an he's 19 we've had sex many many times an the only way for him to *** is by jerking off I feel like I don't satisfy him at all because I can't make him *** what could be the issue p.s just cuz I've heard this many times he dose not like porn nor does he like to watch it I don't know what to do  except every time we have sex afterwards I cry because I don't feel like I make him feel good please help me I can't take another day of crying an being insecure
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Hi Chloe, yes the full 8 weeks no masturbating or sexual contact with you or anybody else, this will give his body time to reboot, then see how things go, this is something that should work.
Good Luck
Please come back and let me when he has done the 8 weeks.
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2064683 tn?1331038711
Yes
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4833242 tn?1359860948
when u first started having sex was the jacking off there
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2064683 tn?1331038711
No but he did tell me when he was in 10th grade that was the first time he master bated an he did it alot
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4833242 tn?1359860948
is he on meds
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2064683 tn?1331038711
So he needs to go 8 weeks without jacking off an sexual contact
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Hi Chloe, There is someting that goes like this, what is done by the hand is remembered by the brain.
So it may be that he has masturbated for so long and its the only way he can get off.
For a couple of men things they can be got over with an 8 week break from masturbating and any sexual contact, so sexiest, it will mean just that, this way he will reboot his body, now this would be up to him, if he wants to get back to a full sexual life, then its worth a try, for both of you, so just discuss it with him, thats about the best I can give you.
Good Luck
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