Too Much Porn?

[lucysen]

I found out that my boyfriend has a porn addiction...I am not sure how to feel or how to help him. We love each other and we have sex, but he  has to watch it everyday. I dont think that that is normal, what do I do?

[NOHARD]

Hi Lucy, I dont think counseling will be the way to go its got to be a think he needs to on his own, he needs to shut down his porn sites, he needs to get rid of any down loads on his computer, and throw away any discs, he has, he has got to try and shut them out, once he can do that, then he is in the healing process, he will need lots of l;oving from you and as n=much sex as you can give him, you will them need to become his porn, you will need to become his porn star, and I think that would suit you.
But you need to find things for his lost time when he gets bored, he needs to fill that gap, the big trouble is which time of day is it?
Good Luck

[remar]

That's great that he asked for help. Can you talk to him about couples counseling?

[lucysen]

he told me that he has had an addiction but nothing can compare to me or our sex. When he is bored it is what he turns to and i have nothing to be worried about as far as our relationship. But he asked for help to get him to stop watching...

[remar]

I think many women would be upset over this. What did he say when you told him this bothered you?

[lucysen]

I expressed my feelings about how i am concerned and feel a little compared to with him watching it everyday.  I understand that its a guy thing but i cant help but feel a little jealous that he is obsessing over fiction.

[Iphigeneia]

Hi.
Porn is normal but sometimes ,allow me to express my self, it becomes a pain in the ***. In my opinion, the best thing you can do, is if you  have a cind of "sex day" you can suggest filming with your camera a porno of the two of you. After finishing, you can both watch naked your porno and go to a round 2. Then, slowly slowly you can reject the camera and just have normal sex, with the idea of "filming a porno". Your boyfriend will eventually not stop, but reduce his porno mania.

I wish it will help.
Take care

[NOHARD]

Hi Lucy, you have two choices, try and get through to him that your not inpressed with him watching porn, even though he may be a life time watcher, and at the back of your, do you think this could be affecting your sex life together, things like do you think is he erect enough why having sex, do you think he is lasting long enough to satisfy you.
The second choice, would be you just say not anymore and walk, toss a coin time, a very sad way to go, but may tweek his brain into thinking time to stop.
Good Luck either way

[remar]

I think you're right. He does have an addiction to porn if he's watching it everyday. It's something he's gotten used to doing. Have you tried talking to him about this and how it bothers you?