LISTEN to what clement4now said!! DON'T let the guy near your family!!!
Hi,
Whether he's transgender, or not, he should not be taking your daughter's pants & underwear anywhere. If he likes to dress as a female, he should be buying women's clothing at a store for himself, not taking them from your laundry basket! His behavior is disturbing and deviant for sure.
How do you know that this guy doesn't have some type of fixation on your daughter? If I were you, I would not allow this guy around my daughter or my home any longer.
Take Care
Your boy friend is not honest. You should protect your daughter from him.Ask your daughter whether he does any mischief with her? This is a probability.
Sounds like he would like to have sex with your daughter and is getting close to you in order to at least fantasize about it. Stay away, far away, from him. Warn your daughter away from trusting him, too, if you can do it without frightening her to death.