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When I first lose my virginity and became sexually active (around age 14), I had a very high sex drive and could last up to 25 minutes before ejaculation, around age 16, I started having a really low sex drive and prematurely ejaculating (its almost instant), now that I'm 21 and not a horny highschool kid anymore, its very embaressing. Is there anything I can do to begin to bring me back to where i was or at least inside the ballpark?
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Thanks very much, I see almost everything you listed in myself and its been happening slowly since this started and its just gotten worse so it makes a lot of sense. I will find a good doctor and therapist to talk with for a little while and see what happens. It's not like I'm still not sexually active, just a little embarrassing with some people when I can't keep an erection or finish too soon. There's one woman in particular that I have experimented with, and I find I'm better with her than others, so again, you make a lot of sense. I wanna thank you again, you might've saved at least one man from a lot more embarrassment.
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For the record, it's complete BS that men don't need passion, thrill and even emotion during sex, it makes it better for both men and women, otherwise you are just going to be bored.
The reason you suffer from premature ejaculation is probably because you have a low sex drive, and there could be many reasons as to why you have a low sex drive, for example problems that are emotional and mental in nature (depression, other psycholigical problems, emotions, stress) medications, adrenal fatigue or other physical health problems.
The fact that your sex drive has become low over time and it wasn't always that way, signifies that you should look into the above possible causes because it doesn't seem normal for you.
Speak to your doctor or a naturopath to eliminate possible health concerns that may play a part of it. Find a therapist or psychologist to tackle any underlying psychological problems or stresses in your life that may be causing it. If you are on any medications, look at the list of symptoms it can cause (many medications these days can effect libido.)
If you take a more spiritual approach and look into sacred sexuality, chakras and kundalini energy, you'll find the result of a low sex drive can also be caused by a person who lacks creative energy, for example if you feel purposeless, unhappy with what you are doing in life, or are indecisive and do not frequently follow through with your goals or plans, it will cause your root chakra to shut down and create a blockage, which is responsibile for sexual energy. To reverse it, come up with plans and complete them, learn to follow your passions and interests, get rid of all things in your life that no longer serve you and start making decisions and take back your life, start creating things, and this will ignite the creation energy within you, which is sexual energy. When you get the process of creation working again within you, you will have an increased libido.
It's a myth that spiritual gurus are asexual and have no libidos, often times they struggle with high sex drives and acheive enlightenment through celibacy, but for someone with the opposite problem, you have to do the opposite, abstinence is the last thing you want, instead force yourself to enjoy the process of creation and ultimately, sex.
In summary there are so many things that can cause your low sex drive so try to get every area looked at professionally.