Thanks guys we do have 3 kids now which I assumed was the problem and he says no I've asked him what's on his mind and he says just me sexy words how were doing it you know all the things that run threw your head during the time I can't think of anything that would be causing it we have tried going for weeks even months without doing it and it's still the same problem we don't have no tv or anything in our room to stop the thought of doing it we have lots of lubes and stuff but he refuses to use them he says I make enough maybe he should go to the dr :-/
once he discharges, he would take minimum half an hour to recover erection. So wait for half an hour before you restart.
Sorry to hear that you are experiencing these issues. You need to be understanding of your partner. If indeed he does suffer from a form of impotency it can be easily relieved with Viagra which you can get from your doctor. Most of the time, these problems are psychological, not physical. Have a chat with him and see whats on his mind. The worst thing you can do is make him feel awkward or embarrassed about it so try to be as sensible as possible. The Viagra will have great results and im sure you wont be getting much sleep! :)
It sounds like there is a lot of tense in your bedroom!! Many times routine problems cant be easily forgotten at night. I would do this If I was in your place. I would find a reason to abstain any sexual activity for a week ( weekend included!) but in the meantime I would act very sexual via my dress code or my attitude. If you manage to abstain and act like this then I believe the result will justify you!