Unable to penetrate my wife

[Roy12_15]

Hi,

I am a 26 year old male, married 2 months back.Till now me and my wife are not able to have intercourse.She is scared of me hurting her, I have tried explaining everything to her, made her read online about such things for positivity.I also have a doctor friend, she explained to her to remove her fear.But this has had no impact on her.I tried fingering but that also she allows only one finger.Are there any medicines/syringe that can make her relax so that she is not able to contract her pelvic muscles.I am worried because everytime we fail, we both get depressed and now this is taking a toll on our relationship.Someone please guide.

[Dalubaba]

Such a long period cannot be considered a normal adjustment period. It may hymen problem or viginismus or some structural problem. Gynecologist    would be able to diognose it. (Spell check not done)

[YardBull]

Since you've only been married two months, your situation may take more time for your wife to relax with sexual matters.  You need plenty of foreplay to allow your wife to attain a certain level of excitement.  In the meantime, you could practice other sexual activities such as oral, "69" position, and so on which may help her to relax.