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Unable to use the bathroom after anal sex
I have had anal sex a few times in the past and enjoyed it. This last time I did it seemed normal. The next day when I used the washroom it burned, I chalked that up to it having been awhile. I had trouble using the washroom, been to the er and was giving something that helped after not going for a week. My problem is that this happened six months ago and I'm still having trouble. It seems that I am unable to push and have to wait till the last moment when I can't hold it any longer to go or I will be on the toilet for a hour trying to push. I apologize for the detail of my bathroom behaviors but I want to give a clear understanding of my situation. I'm too embarrassed to go back to the dr.
Sorry but my boyfriend wouldn't take a picture of my backside but he did the anal massage and that just left me with an erection which was of no help.
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http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/003135.htm
I believe the above link will lead you to an article referring to your issues.
I believe the above link will lead you to an article referring to your issues.
COMMUNITY LEADER
When you are cured of your problem and if you are interested in anal sex, you may Google to find 'Anal peripheral prostate massage" This massage is applicable to woman as well. Just read and try to do, if you do not like, discard it. It increases flexibility of muscles. You can do it by your self. There are 4 types of prostate massage. Only this one is applicable to female for safe anal sex.
COMMUNITY LEADER
Contact a gastroineroogist who does colonoscopy. He would diognose your problem. Or consult your family doctor who will guide you to right doctor. You may tell him about anal intercourse. There is no shame when important health issues are concerned.Maybe that your issue may not be because of anal sex. It may be piles or something else. You need Doctor's advice.
I know I ended up with one hemorrhoid from trying to use the washroom. When that bothers me it itches but otherwise no. I'm 37..
I have not had anal since that day. Trust me the only thing I used were suppositories and enemas and that been months. I have not healed. Will I ever?
I eat well, take extra fiber and am not constipated. If I took anymore stool softener I wouldn't be able to hold it in. My problem is that my muscles don't work and I can't push. I just want to know if it will heal and if I'll regain muscle control as it's been six months already.
COMMUNITY LEADER
I recommend you use a stool softener to see if that helps. Anal can cause or irritate hemorrhoids so you may have some swelling not only from the anal but being constipated. I like to recommend natural treatments whenever possible. Aloe Vera juice can work great and so can drinking at least 8 glass of water per day. Also, add a lot of fruits and veggies to your diet. Hopefully this if you try all of this it will get your system regulated again. If you have anal again you need to make sure to use a condom so your partner doesn't get a bacterial infection, and of course you really should use a lot of lubrication. You can buy it online or in stores. Buy the one that's made specifically for anal. If you keep having these problems do see your Dr again about the constipation.
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