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Uncontrollable Sexual Urge

Hello everyone!

I am a 27 year old female and I am pregnant with our third child. I have recently developed a very high, uncontrollable sex drive that I cannot explain. This has NEVER happened with my son Shawn, or our daughter Stephanie. I am very embarrassed by this and just the other night when my husband and I were laying in bed I held him down and slipped him inside me. I am about three months along and very excited to have another baby on the way, but this high sex drive issue is very discouraging.

It started when my husband took me on a romantic New Year's getaway to France. While in Paris, I was scratched by a cat. Fearing for my baby, I saw a doctor as soon as we got back to the United States. My doctor did a complete physical and all the blood work and urine work came back negative. The following week, I also caught my husband DeShawn watching porn! I felt hurt and humiliated. Since then, I have had a high sex drive.

What is wrong? Please help!
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It sounds like there may be a couple of things going on. First, you caught your husband watching porn so maybe you're trying to keep him away from that by having more sex. The second thing could be your hormones. They can really fluctuate during pregnancy. Sometimes women want nothing to do with sex while others may want it all the time.
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Thanks for answering my question, Remar. So you believe I'm subconsciously keeping my husband's high sex drive in check with an even higher sex drive? That's very interesting.

I didn't know my hormones could fluctuate this much. As I've said, I've had two other pregnancies and this is the first time this has ever happened. I mean, I feel like I need sex every minute of the day. It's actually quite frightening. When I straddled my husband and pinned him down, I felt possessed. I know it sounds hilarious, but there's no other way I can describe it. I know DeShawn is drained and I'm just at my wits end with it. Is there anything I can do to get my hormone levels back in check, or do I just have to rough it out?
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I think it is hormonal.  I believe this energy will ebb on its own soon enough, and this will just be a distant memory as you get more uncomfortable with the pregnancy and then have a house full of two older kids and an infant.  

Your hubby is probably secretly enjoying it, knowing all the focus will soon shift to the new baby.  
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