Vagina sore after being fingered?

[shelbyykinns]

Ohk , So I'm 15 , & I've been fingered before & I've had sex before. But last night, My boyfriend fingered me , & Now my vagina is in pain , like sore . & I'm scared to like talk to my mom about it .. I mean I promised her I wouldn't have sex with him , & That's not basically sex , Is it ? Well .. I'm scared if I tellher she might not trust me with him . & She knows I've talked to him about having sex with him & everything . But I'm scared I might have to go to the doctor for this , & I wouldn't want my dad going with me , It's just ughh . It started hurting like an hour after it happened . Was he just going to deep & I didn't realize it ? Or did he just like loosen it ? I'm like so lost on this .. Helpp ?

[shelbyykinns]

Well , My mom knows about how I have sex & everything . But now I guess I don't have to worry about it . Cuz one , I did talk to him about having sex & how I wasn't ready for that just yet . & Now today , He did break up with me . But , I don't need to worry about it now . I'm just gonna not commit myself to anymore guys . At least , Not till I'm ready & I truly know they're the one for me .

[Judy246]

I completely agree with Mistakeguy advice. I couldn't have said it any better :) Judy

[tejodouro]

I totally agree with Mistakeguy. Listen to him because he sounds wise.

[Mistakeguy789]

Like was said above.  Sexual contact with the vagina sometimes maybe rough.  Does he have fingernails?  Does he bite them?  Are they clipped and taken care of.  I myself have had a nail one time that I clipped and I didn't use the fingernail file when I did that and ended up cutting my partner.  She hurt too.  Pain can be from any number of things.  I would say wait 24 hours if it is not better or things get worse before that time frame you will need to talk to your Mom.  Sorry but I disagree with children at your age having any sexual contact.  While I know I may seem out of touch with reality I am 25 and know what kids these days are doing.  I don't agree with it.  My advice hold off on the sexual contact until you are married.  Honestly if you are giving it all to him now what will be special about the wedding?  Its not the dress or the vows.  :-)

[tejodouro]

Do you have a nurse at your school? maybe you can go talk to her.

[shelbyykinns]

Thank youu (: & It's not really a family situation thingg . It's just more of a ' scared to tell my mom ' about it thing .