Vaginal tear?

[ecko698]

My boyfriend and I had rough sex about 3 months back, and I had pain and inflammation afterwards. I'm also assuming a vaginal tear since I had a painful cut as well. Since then I've healed (assuming, no pain) and have noticed that when I urinate, I no longer have much control over it. It sort of just dribbles out. I can hold it, but when I urinate there's just no power with it if that makes sense. Could my vaginal tear not be healed, or healed properly? Or can this be a cause to getting 'looser'? Also as a bit of extra information, we had been having sex regularly before for months with no tearing problems.

[dreams1961]

That happened to me last october. After having sex with this guy i ended up getting cramps for.two weeks. I dont think i remember having cramps after sex only during thentime i was pregnant.

Man i havent spoken with the guy i had sex with since last october. I told him that i hurt in that area and he didnt say anythjng except "hope youre okay" and that was via text message.

So much for a guy caring.

[Myron_Long]

What is this comment you made before? "Also as a bit of extra information, we had been having sex regularly before for months with no tearing problems"

This deosn't imply its been 2 months with no sex. Anyway, did you get an urologists to look at your vagina? Thats the doctor you need to visit.

[ecko698]

We've stayed away from sex since about 2 months back because we broke up. :) So there has been no intercourse since.

[Myron_Long]

the continuous sex is whats prolonging the healing process. you may not feel any pain but you can see you're not properly heal. you need to stay away from sex for like 2 weeks to see some great results. just give him oral for the meantime, LOL