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Very scared... :( H3Lp!

I had sex about four days ago with a guy whom I've known for a very long time. It was the third time or so we had intercourse. He was a little rough, especially at first and I don't think I was well lubricated before he actually entered and it was a bit uncomfortable at first. Immediately after I didn't feel any pain but like a day or so after I noticed this incredible burning sensation when I was in the shower. I said I would monitor it to see if it was yeast but I haven't gotten an unfamiliar discharge or anything. When I urinate it doesn't hurt so I think that eliminates to possibility of a UTI and there are no signs of bumps or anything. This morning when I woke up I was so painful that I actually took a mirror and a flashlight to see what the problem was and it looks like tearing at the entrance of my vagina. I'm really scared as the pain is not subsiding. Does anyone know what this could be or why it could be happening? Thanks
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Yeah, I agree with mama_t. You don't want to get an infection, and it's always good to just be sure. I don't know how common it is to tear from sex, I personally have never experienced it. Remember this: when you're having sex you need to be honest and open with your partner, and if it hurts or you're uncomfortable, he needs to know. Upon entering a girls vagina, the guy needs to be gentle and work it in slowly, not just ram it in! The skin of the vagina is very delicate and sensitive. Natural lubricant or lubricant form a bottle is important during intercourse so that irritation and chaffing doesn't occur.  
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The tearz are probably caused from the rough sex. The pain is them trying to heal but if its so painful I would go to the doctor to make sure they arent infected.
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