So I recently got into a relationship, and felt comfortable enough to finally have sex with him. Keep in mind, I'm a virgin still. So I had sex for the first time and there was a little bleeding, which we both knew was going to happen, a few days later we decided to give it another try, this time.. It was a lot of blood, a river flowing down (TMI I'm sorry). After that I was spotting for 8 days, (also not even close to my period date), and the 8th day it seemed to stop and so we decided to try it again, this time I bleed again but not as much as the second time, can someone please tell me why I am bleeding every single time I try to have sex?