My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now, we just recently had sex for the first time in June. The first time I had sex with him I bled, about a week or so later i started to spot, and i wasnt any where near due to get my period, in fact i had just gotten off the day before we had sex for the first time. I took a pregnancy test and it came back negative, I never bled with anyone else, except when I lost my virginity. But everytime me and my current boyfriend have sex i bleed almost everytime during sex. last night he made me bleed a lot more then usual, i was thinking the sex made my period come early but it stopped right after i went and cleaned up, and then we had sex again in the same night, and no bleeding. We do use condoms most of the time, last night we didn't. What should I do? It makes me really embarrased when we have to stop because im bleeding. I wouldnt really say we have "rough" sex, but it does hurt everytime he goes all the way in, when he does short strokes its not as painful. any advice would be helpful =)