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Whats wrong with me

so i masturbate jus like any other guy and i have no problem with ejaculating but when im with my girlfriend and she gives me oral sex for some reason i jus dont ejaculate. i get very aroused and i want to ejaculate but i jus dont. is there something we can do to make it happen. if you have any thoughts or advice i would appreciate it very much thank you.  
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4900978 tn?1360729293
thank you very much
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Hi Jarrod, I think that your problem steems from your masturbating, Now as guys if we are not careful we can apply a little bit more pressure when we do it, ok so far, now if thats what you do, then theres your answer and it comes from this quote, what is done by the hand, is remembered by the brain, so when having oral sex your g/f does not apply the pressure that you are used to, I think in that case you should just use oral as a foreplay, but you could get your g/f to finger you anus while having oral, I bet that would work, its all down to her massarging your prostate and bingo, that should get you off.
Good Luck
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134578 tn?1693250592
(And frankly, there is no reason they should be, if they aren't.)
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134578 tn?1693250592
Try moving to vaginal sex before orgasm, if she's on the Pill.  Some guys just aren't comfortable ejaculating into a person's mouth.  
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Try your g spot the anus. but if your not into that have her play with your testicles
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