Why cant i orgsam?

IM 40 years old and never orgsam and now im married and i have never orgsam with my husband.. Whats wrong with me?

[j7653]

You didnt say if you can you orgasm by yourself?  If you can, then it seems you are too self-conscious.  You should relax, have a glass of wine, get a good vibrator, get used to the feeling of it, have an orgasm, and then either have your husband use it on you or use it on yourself in front of him. That should do it eventually.

If not, I have heard that Viagra may help women.  You could also have your hormones tested.  You can try Zestra.  I got it for my wife.  It doesnt make you orgasm but it makes everything all warm.

[Vance2335]

A lot of women can not have an orgasm, some can only have one from clitorial stimulation and a few can have them from intercourse.
so if you can't have an orgasm there is nothign wrong with you, you are in the 30% of women who can't.

[princess111355]

but why cant some woman orgasm?