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Why do I hate sex and no professional can help me?
I am a healthy 33 year old happily married female. Sex wasn’t always so terrible - I used to feel sexy walking down the street. I used feel the “spark” at appropriate times. Now however, sex is like getting hit on the head over and over again with a bag of pistachios and the world thinking you’re a little crazy for not enjoying it. I dread the thought of it. Not only is the physical penetration painful but I don’t even have a drive by myself. It’s a bore, at best. I drink a lot of water, take whole food based vitamins, exercise, I have personal hobbies and am not in an abusive relationship. Doctors say “try more lube” and “you’re perfectly fine” after a physical exam. We’ve put a man on the moon yet no one can figure out my sex drive, including myself. Any female who has come through this successfully please share.
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