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Will his penis hurt me?

My bf is very tall, and although he's white, his penis is really enormous (around 9 inches).
I'm 7 years younger than him (he's 24) and I'm kinda small. It hurts when we have sex, but I can't help by asking harder because I get lost in the moment, so it gets pretty violent, and we have sex several times a day.
I do get wet and aroused. The problem is that afterwards I end up really hurt.

My main concern is: Will my vagina get permamently damaged or loose by being penetrated so roughly?
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im guessing your around 17.you may want to try slowing down a bit.if your having sex that many times a day it could be your a little raw inside.a womans vagina wil eventually streach and you will be able to accomadate him a little easier. he should try and be little more gentaly with you.if your not careful you can cause scaring in side then you may end up having to go to a doctor or a hospital to have it scorrected.the muscles will take care of themselfs but you need to help. you might try a lubericant also . hope this helps some.
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Have you tried luburcations?
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I am not an expert but from experience I believe that the length of his penis is causing the pain Your vagina can easily stretch in width but has a definate length. Frequency of sex is definatly not an issue if you become wet and well lubricated. My penis a little big myself at 71/2  inch long which has never ever been a problem but with a large circumfrence (around) of 61/2 inches I nearly always need lubricant to be able to enter.
I don't know how but if the both of you could try for a while with less than full penetration it may be the answer. I don't know if a vagina can stretch lengthways with time.
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I love how she says "although he's white" as if she'd expect white guys to have small penises. Black guys might be slightly larger than average, but it's something like... the average black guy is around 7 inches and the average white guy is around 6.5. So if you're a white guy at 7.5 inches you're already bigger than the average black guy.
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by the way, where do you live? It would be illegal where I live for a 24 year old man to have sex with a 17 year old girl
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hai i am 33years old male i married 3 years ago but i have no children we consult gynocolgist she tested my wife and all reports are normal. i tested sperm for consecutive months first time it is 50mi/ml second time 15mi/ml .she suggest me take evion forte and siphene-m . after using ten days my pennis not getting hard. what are the promblem by taking this medicine. please guide me properly
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