Another method is penis bath. This is alternate cold/hot water bath. You may google the appropriate phrase to visit the relevant website.
Forcing to have sex is completely demoralizing to a man.He will not be able to get erection and he will not last longer. First he has to create sexual energy and then he has to control this energy to last longer.
Instead of forcing him, persuade him to learn male deer exeercise and help him to do this exercise. You may do female deer exercise. Both can help each other with willing operation.Do not show your displeasure when he per-ejaculates. Take this lightly.In case you are excited you may go to a bathroom and masturbate to orgasm.Do not tell him that you had to do it. This is to increase his confidence.Kegel exercise works for male as well as woman. Learn kegel exercise.Cooperative effors will pay you great dividend whereas, forcing will make your relationship worse.If you can take further interest in kundalini yoga, Taoist yoga, you will find number of methods to get sexual fulfillment which is the essential part of operative life. Google these words to get at the different website. Also visit Pegym.com..
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But seriously if he wants to last longer then just do it multiple times a day. That will work for sure.
What are his fantasies? Is there some foreplay he could do that would get you primed enough that he could satisfy you? Have you talked to him about this? Is he satisfied with the situation, or is he wanting help? I'm about 6 years older than your husband, but libido starts to decrease in men in their mid to late 30's, which is a womans sexual peak. Your body is probably screaming for it. Do you have any children? Craving of sex and reproduction are often very high in women your age. Maybe finding a way for you to orgasm faster would be easier than building his endurance. Don't know, lots of factors at play in this question. If you haven't, please talk to him about this. If you feel you are truly a sex addict, I would suggest cognative/behavioral therapy. Any addiction can ruin your life. Addiction is not what you do, but why you do it. I know you must feel frustrated, keep working it out, you'll find the solution.
(Deep breath...) :-) Okay. I have to say this, as you chose to share it in your post. You said that you used to force your husband to have sex. Does that mean you no longer do this? I hope it does. Because, in case you are unaware, forcing anyone to have sex, even your husband, IS rape, and unacceptable behavior. As far as making him last longer, well, you really can't MAKE him do this, per se. Erection and orgasm are controlled by his brain, which would need to learn how to control when his ejaculation occurs. Sounds like you have enough practice. Not sure what else to tell you, besides toys and oils may help. Blessings - Blu