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allergy to oral sex?

My boyfriend has not performed oral sex on me yet. We have discussed this with him flat out refusing to do it. He claims that he has a reaction to performing oral sex, such as a blister or rash. I don't believe it is possible for his mouth to be allergic to my vagina while his penis has no problem. Please help! This is a horrible reason for a breakup!
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I would be surprised if it was an allergy, but that does not mean that he still gets an reaction like one. My boyfriend can not finger me, because my fluid is two acidic and it hurts his cuticles, he can give me oral but not very long because he will get a rash on his face if he has just shaved. I under stand this and I am ok with it, if there was something about his body i could not do like oral sex, he would under stand as well.

and even if this is your bf way of telling you he just does not want to do it, that is his choice, just as if you did not want to give him oral would be your choice. it should not be something you have a break up over.
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Mine says that as well. But he says that he has no problem giving oral, but that he has a stomach allergy to estrogen. Can anyone provide input or accurate information. I could use some help.
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I've heard of gag reflexes and, personal dislikes to taste and odor... but, never allergies.
Maybe it's possible... or, maybe saying that it's an allergy is really his way of saying that he just doesn't like doing it.
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While I have to say that I doubt this... It is possible in theory.

I have known of several women on the converse side who had no problem with oral sex in its conclusion but intra-vaginally would have reactions to seminal fluid.  The simple truth is different peoples bodies are sensitive to different things.  That being the case it also doesn't mean he will react to YOUR body chemistry the same as he did with another woman will probably, but not necessarily cary over largely according to diet and alkalinity.
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Yes it is very possible because I'm allergic to my girlfriend vagina and around my mouth breaks out every time.I've tried vasiline before doing it and that kind of helped but now it has got to the point to were I don't do it at all because of the rash.So don't think it's a lie because I'm living proof.And we go get checked every six mths so I know it's not a std that she has.
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