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am i bi?

im a 16 year old girly and im completly into guys. but for a while i've seemed to be turned on by girls only when theyre doing sexual stuff. otherwise, if i see a girl i dont get turned on or think shes hot. im really confused and not sure. i have made out with a girl a few times and i liked it...but i liked it just as much as when i made out with a guy. i dont know if this means im bi or lesbian or if im just confused and experimenting...

please someone help me out a little
thanks : )
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332074 tn?1229560525
Only you know the answer to that, but I will tell you that most people that are gay or even bi don't have to ask that question. They just know.
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228936 tn?1249094248
Maybe curley has a point but I wouldn't dawdel too long in this arena or exploritory thinking. Society today has a way of saying it's ok to explore but I have seen too much unhappiness from homosexuality. You are too young for all this.
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558991 tn?1226060828
Believe it or not, but about 85% of all women have had some sort of sexual contact with another woman. Wanna know how many women have had fantasies about other women? 100%. No joke. ALL women fantasize about other women. Hell, even I do it! It is completely normal to be curious. What type of sexual stuff turns you on? Pretty much anything that has to do with sex, done by a man or a woman, turns everyone on. If you were a lesbian (in my opinion), you would have said that you liked kissing a girl BETTER than kissing a guy, and you would get turned on by women all the time, not just when they're doing sexual stuff. I'm not going to tell you what you are. It's up to you to decide which relationship you like better.
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