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44 years old never experienced anal sex... was always afraid to try... So afraid of potiental for mess.. How do I know if he can feel anything up there and if it will be messy... afraid of passing gas... not being clean enough... just afraid but want to try ... see that many say is a sexual pleasure.
Anal sex can feel amazing! once you try it you will be hooked, first of all if your worried about being clean, have anal sex right after you go #2 and you can use an enema after you go to be sure ^-~ you can wash your anal area with mild soap and water before anal sex too. To start make sure you have a good water based anal lube, Astro Glide is great, Wet is great but KY will work in a pinch, next apply it to your anus and inside your anus, when you think you have used WAY too much lube you have used almost enough. Now would be a good time to mention you are going to be tight the first few times, you might want to try a small dildoe on yourself and work up to a lifesize penis, the next thing you need is to relax, by relax i mean become as loose as you can, when he goes to penetrate you, just relax, great pleasure is in store for you if you relax, when he slides his penis in and starts to thrust you will feel like you need to go to the bathroom, i assure you if you have just went and used an enema there will be NO feces, its just a side effect, thats about it hun, remember, C.L.A.R.E 1. Clean 2. Lube (And) 3. Relax 4.Enjoy
From personal experience, I don't recommend it.
It isn't that I'm against the idea in terms of hygiene... you could always do it
in the shower. It's that it can be very painful... when you're on the receiving end!
But, if you must try, use plenty of lube.
It isn't that I'm against the idea in terms of hygiene... you could always do it
in the shower. It's that it can be very painful... when you're on the receiving end!
But, if you must try, use plenty of lube.
if you're scared to do it...don't because you won't be relaxed enough and it will hurt....when you get it in your head that YOU REALLY want to do it, and you are comfortable and relaxed then try it...most of the times it won't be "messy" well atleast I've never had that problem...
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