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anal sex

My hubby really likes to have anal sex everyday, and i really hate it! It makes me very upset because evertime we are having sex he goes straight for anal sex.. So i get no pleasure and I end up masturbating by myself and crying in the restroom so he dont get to hear or see me.  Now the problem is that everytime i try to talk about it he gets mad and changes the subject or leaves the house so he dont hear me complain. I love him very much and we have being together for 15 years. Can anyone help me and give me advise how i can fix this problem?
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if you both are not having fun, its not right.  anal hurts you and really doesn't do much for him.  He just gets to feel superior over you.  or maybe he has some gay issues to deal with
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Anal sex is a very dominating type of sex, giving him control- so you have to take some control back.Is it worth crying over everytime you have sex? You deserve to be pleased too- and if you are really not comfortable with anal sex, then do not let him do it,PERIOD. Have some respect for yourself,girl.
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Never any vaginal sex?
If so, why not?
Was sex always like this with him? That is to say, only the way he wants it.
15 years is a long time to tolerate something that you "hate" and brings you
"no pleasure."
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