can i get pregnant if am virgin and never had a penetration??

[maripossa]

hello there...
i am 24 years olds...still virgin...i grew up in a very preserved family where we r not allowed to have sex b4 marriage... i am now engaged getting married in 5 months...my last day of period was two days ago...well...my fiance and i kind of lost control last night and we made love but without any penetration...or intercourse
...but usually he never came on me...or on my *****...what makes me so worry..is that his sperm came near my clitoris area...i don't take any birth control pill...i never ever had sex in my whole life...i am still virgin...
i haven't slept the night coz i am very worry that i might get pregnant ..this would be a disaster and my parents would certainly kill me...
thank u for ur fast answer...i really feel depressed...

[maripossa]

i would very appreciate a doctor's opinion abt my question...

[maripossa]

thank u for ur answer tonya... i forgot to mention that i also have irregular period...

[tonyad]

   Hello,

   The answer to your question is a 'No"!  Sperm on the outside of the Vagina would have a very, very, hard time making the journey. Sperm feed on sugars and different things that are located inside of the vagina.

   Sperm die off quickly if not feasting on their journey. Just think, when a man ejaculates in you....the sperm come out already near the uterus so the journey is no where near as far as traveling from the outside in!  
     Even when ejaculation happens inside the vagina  many, many, many die off before they can even make it into the uterus and up to the egg. Then they have to burrow their way through the wall of the egg for implantation.
  
     I hope that makes sense and not to much info......But I would relax if I were you.
Now you can get some rest ;)

Take Care,
~Tonya