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can't ejaculate more than once a day
I am 32 years old and just got married for the first time. My wife and I want to have children and to have sex more often but each time we try to have sex more than once a day, I can't ejaculate. However, if we only have sex once a day, I have no problem ejaculating and orgasming, but anything more often than that and I can't. I want to be able to have sex with my wife more often and ejaculate each time we do it, but it seems like I am limited to just once a day right now. I can get it up and stay hard through intercourse and it gets to the point where I would normally ejaculate and my muscles tense, but nothing happens and the orgasm doesn't happen for me. My wife wants a baby so bad so she wants me to ejaculate in her every time we have sex and to be able to do it more often than once a day. Also, I have noticed that my libido has dropped significantly in the last few years as well, sometimes I don't even want to have sex at all for several days. My suspicion is that my testosterone levels are low but that is just from the research I have done online. Please help. I haven't looked at porn in over a year and I don't masturbate at all.
Good advice has already been given, but as far as your testosterone level, don't go by something on the Internet or your suspicion. If you want to know, get tested. I will also emphasize not to set up an every-day or twice-a-day sex schedule. A guy needs to build up some anticipation or tension to have worthwhile sex. Also, I would recommend some variety besides intercourse. All of this factors into your declining libido.
You aren't even supposed to have sex every day if you are trying to conceive, much less more than once a day. Having sex daily has a depressing effect on the sperm count. (Not to mention that having sex on demand is a great big libido killer, taking all the fun away from having sex.) My doctor told me that every third day is optimal. I was too nervous to go that rarely, so we went every other day.
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