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Hi I am gal of 29 years and just married few months ago. I have not had intercourse with my husband yet as we stayed apart for career reasons though we love each other a lot and are physically involved the otherway. But I have shifted to him and we r now together from the last couple of days. I am really scared of the thought of intercourse as I have heard its really painful during the initial times. Does it really hurts? I dont feel like having it whenever my husband plans for it. He really loves and care so he doesnot insists.But i want to get rid of it. How do I develop interest? Please help
Hi annie. The secret to first time intercourse is lots of foreplay. Masturbate together. Fondle him and let him explore your body. Put your mind on how good it is and really enjoy what you are doing. When you feel moisture down there you are ready for him. Help him bu guiding him into you, slowly. Little by little allow him to enter you. At some piont he will have to break your hymen with an extra bit of pushing. This may hurt a little and there could be some bleeding. This is nothing to worry about, it's very natural. Once he is inside you lay they a while and dont move, get used to the wonderful feeling. Watch him ejaculate and enjoy the moment. From here on you will enjoy sex more. But it's easy steady the first time with you getting very wet down there. Lubrication from natural fluids is best, his precum and your liquids. Enjoy sex Annie.
Hi Annie, Congrats, and the next time I say that to is after your first night of love and sex OK.
So you really want to do the deed then, so try this, go out with hubby have a nice meal and a bottle of wine, I'm trying to get you and him relaxed, go home and take a nice warm bath or shower together you know candles, some more wine or champers, try to prepair your bedroom, more candles, make the room smell nice, now you should be both relaxed and in the mood for making love, but get to know your and his bodys, lots of foreplay so by now you should both be ready, and remember not all women get dad pains as your hymen breaks, then your now a real women and wecome to the club.
Good Luck
PS how do you develop in sex, I think now is not the time to go into that bit to deep, just follow your husbands lead and take it from there.
So you really want to do the deed then, so try this, go out with hubby have a nice meal and a bottle of wine, I'm trying to get you and him relaxed, go home and take a nice warm bath or shower together you know candles, some more wine or champers, try to prepair your bedroom, more candles, make the room smell nice, now you should be both relaxed and in the mood for making love, but get to know your and his bodys, lots of foreplay so by now you should both be ready, and remember not all women get dad pains as your hymen breaks, then your now a real women and wecome to the club.
Good Luck
PS how do you develop in sex, I think now is not the time to go into that bit to deep, just follow your husbands lead and take it from there.
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