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first time intercorse
i am really worried about intercorse ,because i got married last month me n my husband we both r virgin,we both try alot do foreplay,put lots of lubricants but still ma virgin i dont know what to do is there nay other way to broke my virginity like can doctor do it pls help me pls
It is possible for a doctor to surgically open a hymen, but it would be unusual to need it. When you have a period, can you use a tampon? If so, your hymen should not be an impediment to having sex.
If the issue is simply tension, you might try Valium or some wine beforehand, along with using the lubricants and having the foreplay. He could also insert his fingers and see if he can give you pleasure that way before attempting to insert his penis (maybe even on a different night, i.e., do the fingers one night and if it gives you pleasure, you can be a little more relaxed the next night.)
If the problem persists, you might see a therapist who specializes in sexual matters.
If the issue is simply tension, you might try Valium or some wine beforehand, along with using the lubricants and having the foreplay. He could also insert his fingers and see if he can give you pleasure that way before attempting to insert his penis (maybe even on a different night, i.e., do the fingers one night and if it gives you pleasure, you can be a little more relaxed the next night.)
If the problem persists, you might see a therapist who specializes in sexual matters.
Please say clearly is the problem from your husband's side or from your side?
If from your side in medical term it is called fridgidity. for the first thing u should do is:
1.be confident
2.dont be scared of sex.
3.enjoy sex.
4.support your partner both emotionally and physically.
5.share some view emotions or whateveru like before sex so that u will not be stressed.
6.make environment pleasant before sex.
Write here with your previous sexual history and habits.good luck. Bye
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