first time sex

[pettybett]

My gf and i had sex for the first time jus a couple of days ago. It was her first time and we had protected sex. But after that, she have been having red discharge for a few days and it change to brown discharge today... What does it mean? Is there something wrong wif her? We are very worry...PLEASE HELP......

[eskercurve]

This could be one of many things.  Some questions - is this the first time either of you had sex, i.e., is this the first partner either of you have had?  If so, then this could be normal because if she was a virgin then her hymen broke and sometimes there is some bleeding due to the broken skin and tearing that occurs during intercourse for the first time.  I would highly recommend waiting until the discharging stops before having sex again.  Use lubricant if she is not very wet during sex.  

Even if it is not her first time having sex, if you are much larger than other men she's had or if she hasn't had penetrative sex in a long time this can still happen.  Same advice - wait until it stops before having sex again.

As always be protected.  If this continues for a week then see a doctor.  Good luck!

[pettybett]

it was not my first time but it was her first time... so it is normal? cause there wasnt any blood after that, the discharge only came the next day and it change from red to brown.


Thanks